a girl/lady has a lot of responsibility in relationship also,...

i do think a lady is to be a lady always...like i have no interest in places like Vegas, or raving parties etc...this holds no joy for me...If you are true lady, you are not a lady just sometimes, but all the time..sure there have been many models that have partied all their lives...but if you also notice, often they never marry, or their marriages fall apart...

and just cuteness and saying just three syllable sentences, past a certain age is not inspiring, nourishing...and simply not enough...a lady is creative, eloquent, has abilities :) I mean ..how will your children even learn to speak, be highly intelligent and creative, with such low energy and lack of intellect around them.....Children do absorb everything incredibly readily prior to the age of seven, and it is very important to be at your very best always in the way you intellectually, emotionally, spiritually inspire them...:)

 a girl has a lot of responsibility in relationship also, to be this lovely rose, to nourish and create a lovely environment always, to inspire ...there's really not an in between to this...i find much more joy being weeks forever in spas of Switzerland, nourishing my mind, body, senses..or Seychelles...than being shallow or doing anything to dirty myself and my environment with my loved ones ....I feel very important to make time for yourself in any relationship, so you are renewed, and at your loveliest, emotionally, mentally, and the way you nourish, and love those dear...

The environments we create, nurture, and memories we live and remember, is really the integral essential makeup of our entire life experience...So to me it is better to approach it philosophically, emotionally, spiritually, and creatively at an elevated level always.

..I rather have children learn all classical composition pieces, than sit all their lives watching cartoons...it does not mean they cannot play...but also, like with adults, play is more quality when it is in natural untampered environment, for the senses, and letting organic learning occur beautifully and on its own naturally this way...but then gently guiding them back to literature, and other learning...i have this gentle effortless but still assertive way with children, and it is nice to see how lovingly and sweetly they respond to me, and yet I am able to better them in interacting also...